A
little about our philosophy here in The Woodshed:
Why a spanking site? Because like most of you reading this,
we are into spanking. This fetish has never been far from
Bethany's mind since she was tiny. She can remember as a little
tyke of no more than four LOVING an old-fashioned picture
book in which a little mouse named Muggins was spanked with
a slipper and another in which a bad doll was spanked by a
teddy-bear. Like all the rest of you, she looked up the words
"spanking" "paddle" "switch"
"punish" et.al. in every dictionary she could find
for years. She connived (evil little wench) to get playmates
spanked. She knew every book in the children's department
of the local library that contained spankings and can remember
those spankings now 30 years later. During those years it
has varied, for me, from being something that I have taken
joy and pleasure in to something that I wish I'd never heard
of. But for me it's here to stay, part of my sexuality, part
of my world view, part of me.
These "labels" are appropriate for some relationships,
but many women who seek a spanking relationship are ANYTHING
but submissive. They do not want a "24/7" relationship
with a "master" yet still find that they need a
disciplinary framework in their lives, backed up with spanking.
One correspondent has suggested that the labels should be
"spirited but needy women and the strong, caring men
who love them." We agree with this, but that would add
a lot of text to our pages!
Not only do we obviously not advocate violence towards women
in any form, the non-consensual spankings portrayed in many
of our stories have no place in real life. As much as many
of you gentlemen may believe that the rude woman in front
of you in the grocery store check-out could benefit from a
little OTK time (and well she might!), you can't do it...
and you know it. Within the context of a committed submissive
relationship a woman might receive firm physical correction
which is for her benefit and assists in personal growth. Although
a woman may be very "unwilling" at the time to receive
correction, ultimately she has chosen to be in the relationship
and has of her own free will submitted to the dominant partner
and his discipline. Such a "punishment" may well
be painful, but it will never be violent.
We neither
advocate nor reject the idea of the corporal punishment of
children. These decisions are private, and need to be made
within each family. However, we do believe strongly that adults
who find "sexual" spanking erotic must be extremely
cautious in this regard.
Occasionally,
one of our stories may contain an adult character's recollection
of childhood punishments. Our stories are exactly that: stories.
Many adults fantasize about the "loss of control"
that submission and spanking entail, and for some, this requires
a childhood setting. Our fiction does discuss the corporal
punishment of teenaged women, primarily in a historical or
fantasy context, set in eras or "worlds" during
which such events were a fact of life. Portraying historical
reality does not imply that we believe that modern teenagers
should be subjected to corporal punishment.